Christian dating | New York Dating | Online Dating Site | Dating | Online dating | Free Personals Latest articles from Christian dating | New York Dating | Online Dating Site | Dating | Online dating | Free Personals (http://www.findbestdating.com) http://www.findbestdating.com 2012-06-01T16:20:32+01:00 text/html 2008-02-05T15:33:35+01:00 http://www.findbestdating.com <p><small><font color=#B0B0B0>Article source: <a href="http://www.bigarticle.com/">http://www.bigarticle.com/</a>. Used with author's permission.</font></small><!-- AdCentsPro --> <p>How long do you need to know a person before you can know for sure that this person is "the one?"</p> <p>In my experience working with singles and couples, it's a good idea to know a person for at least four seasons - winter, spring, summer, fall - before you decide this is the one.</p> <p>This give you enough time to determine if this person is someone who is commit-able, able to enter fully into a long term loving relationship.</p> <p>If you have a history of failed and/or difficult relationships, you may be feeling "gun shy" - more than a little scared to get into another relationship and repeat history.</p> <p>That's a reasonable and even healthy fear. Sometimes, however, we can all benefit from a history-ectomy. A history-ectomy is when you learn from the past and then cut it loose.</p> <p>Just because it is what you have always done does not mean that you have to keep doing it.</p> <p>You can do things differently.</p> <p>You can make different choices.</p> <p>You can change.</p> <p>Finally, there is something important to rememeber about being alone:</p> <p>Lonliness is being alone when you wish you were not.</p> <p>Solitude is another state of being alone. Solitude is when you are alone by choice, bcause you want to be alone and enjoy being alone.</p> Visit <a target="_new" href="http://www.secretsofgreatrelationships.com">SecretsofGreatRelationships.com</a> for tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 10 day e-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.</p> http://www.findbestdating.com/dating-the-4-seasons-a491.html How lond do you need to know someone before you know they are "the one?" Here are some tips and tools to aid you in making a good choice.