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2012-06-01T16:19:14+01:00text/html2008-02-05T15:33:35+01:00http://www.findbestdating.com<p><small><font color=#B0B0B0>Article source: <a href="http://www.fastlove.ca/">http://www.fastlove.ca/</a>. Used with author's permission.</font></small><!-- AdCentsPro --> <p>"A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success. "</p> <p>- Bo Bennett</p> <p>Rejection hurts.</p> <p>But there came a time in my dating career (shortly after being given the pink slip from a guy I was absolutely crazy about) when it dawned on me that everybody is rejected at one time or another. I read an interview with a massively attractive rock star who talked about getting the heave-ho from a girl he loved, and I thought, "Wow, if even he gets rejected, then perhaps I'm not so bad off after all."</p> <p>Chances are some guy will tell you, "I think it's time we see other people." And it will probably hurt.</p> <p>How do you deal with it? Well, you can sit around with a gallon of Haagen Dazs, wondering where you went wrong, why you can't hold a man, why you're fundamentally undesirable. Or you can tell yourself, "Maybe it just wasn't meant to be."</p> <p>Which is the healthier choice? Hey, you are entitled to your feelings. Rejection stings, but this is the time to love yourself, not berate yourself for being a loser. Wallowing in misery and junk food will only make you, well, miserable. And miserable people are a turn-off.</p> <p>When some guy informs you that you're not the woman of his dreams, shake his hand and thank him for the memories. Think of it this way: He's not for you. Maybe somebody upstairs is making sure he doesn't move into your life for a reason.</p> <p>But, if you absolutely must, sit around for a day (two at the very most) with the Haagen Dazs. Be miserable. Feel what you feel. Ask yourself what, if anything, you did to send him away.</p> <p>Then stop.</p> <p>Treat yourself like a treasure that has yet to be discovered. Carry yourself like a queen. Banish all thoughts of your former relationship. Smile easily at people wherever you go.</p> <p>Move on. You'll open yourself up to the lasting relationship you deserve, and to a man who brings you joy and laughter.</p> Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of "How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams." Sign up for her free dating tips at <a target="_new" href="http://www.marrysmart.com">http://www.marrysmart.com</a> . Check out her blog at <a target="_new" href="http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com">http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com</a> .</p>
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Rejection doesn't have to stop you from getting the love you deserve. Here's how to get over it.