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    <outline type="rss"  title="&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;font color=#B0B0B0&amp;gt;Article source: &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;http://www.fastlove.ca/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.fastlove.ca/&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;. Used with author's permission.&amp;lt;/font&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- AdCentsPro --&amp;gt;   &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success. &amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;- Bo Bennett&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Rejection hurts.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;But there came a time in my dating career (shortly after being given the pink slip from a guy I was absolutely crazy about) when it dawned on me that everybody is rejected at one time or another. I read an interview with a massively attractive rock star who talked about getting the heave-ho from a girl he loved, and I thought, &amp;quot;Wow, if even he gets rejected, then perhaps I'm not so bad off after all.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Chances are some guy will tell you, &amp;quot;I think it's time we see other people.&amp;quot;  And it will probably hurt.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;How do you deal with it? Well, you can sit around with a gallon of Haagen Dazs, wondering where you went wrong, why you can't hold a man, why you're fundamentally undesirable.  Or you can tell yourself, &amp;quot;Maybe it just wasn't meant to be.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Which is the healthier choice? Hey, you are entitled to your feelings. Rejection stings, but this is the time to love yourself, not berate yourself for being a loser. Wallowing in misery and junk food will only make you, well, miserable. And miserable people are a turn-off.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;When some guy informs you that you're not the woman of his dreams, shake his hand and thank him for the memories. Think of it this way: He's not for you. Maybe somebody upstairs is making sure he doesn't move into your life for a reason.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;But, if you absolutely must, sit around for a day (two at the very most) with the Haagen Dazs. Be miserable. Feel what you feel. Ask yourself what,  if anything, you did to send him away.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Then stop.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Treat yourself like a treasure that has yet to be discovered. Carry yourself like a queen. Banish all thoughts of your former relationship. Smile easily at people wherever you go.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Move on. You'll open yourself up to the lasting relationship you deserve, and to a man who brings you joy and laughter.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;  Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of &amp;quot;How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.&amp;quot; Sign up for her free dating tips at &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://www.marrysmart.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.marrysmart.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; . Check out her blog at &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; .&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; " text="&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;font color=#B0B0B0&amp;gt;Article source: &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;http://www.fastlove.ca/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.fastlove.ca/&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;. Used with author's permission.&amp;lt;/font&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- AdCentsPro --&amp;gt;   &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;quot;A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success. &amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;- Bo Bennett&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Rejection hurts.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;But there came a time in my dating career (shortly after being given the pink slip from a guy I was absolutely crazy about) when it dawned on me that everybody is rejected at one time or another. I read an interview with a massively attractive rock star who talked about getting the heave-ho from a girl he loved, and I thought, &amp;quot;Wow, if even he gets rejected, then perhaps I'm not so bad off after all.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Chances are some guy will tell you, &amp;quot;I think it's time we see other people.&amp;quot;  And it will probably hurt.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;How do you deal with it? Well, you can sit around with a gallon of Haagen Dazs, wondering where you went wrong, why you can't hold a man, why you're fundamentally undesirable.  Or you can tell yourself, &amp;quot;Maybe it just wasn't meant to be.&amp;quot;&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Which is the healthier choice? Hey, you are entitled to your feelings. Rejection stings, but this is the time to love yourself, not berate yourself for being a loser. Wallowing in misery and junk food will only make you, well, miserable. And miserable people are a turn-off.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;When some guy informs you that you're not the woman of his dreams, shake his hand and thank him for the memories. Think of it this way: He's not for you. Maybe somebody upstairs is making sure he doesn't move into your life for a reason.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;But, if you absolutely must, sit around for a day (two at the very most) with the Haagen Dazs. Be miserable. Feel what you feel. Ask yourself what,  if anything, you did to send him away.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Then stop.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Treat yourself like a treasure that has yet to be discovered. Carry yourself like a queen. Banish all thoughts of your former relationship. Smile easily at people wherever you go.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Move on. You'll open yourself up to the lasting relationship you deserve, and to a man who brings you joy and laughter.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;  Terry Hernon MacDonald is the author of &amp;quot;How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.&amp;quot; Sign up for her free dating tips at &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://www.marrysmart.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.marrysmart.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; . Check out her blog at &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; .&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; " url="http://www.findbestdating.com/dating-advice-dealing-with-a354.html"/>
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