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    <outline type="rss"  title="&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;font color=#B0B0B0&amp;gt;Article source: &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;http://www.availableandhappy.com/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.availableandhappy.com/&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;. Used with author's permission.&amp;lt;/font&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- AdCentsPro --&amp;gt;   &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Back in 2004, I met a gentleman who was interested in getting to know me better.  After a few discussions of finding out what I needed to know, I decided to participate.  Early in this process, he told me that he is not a good chit-chat starter.   He could engage in conversation but starting it and keeping it flowing were not his gifts.  As time moved on, I found this to be true and it began to be a bother.  The long moments of silence on the phone at times drove me batty.  I dont know about you but I dont do long moments of silence well at all.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;One day, I decided to ask him how he felt about our communication.  I mentioned to him my concern about the long moments of silence and he began to apologize.  Well, I told him that I appreciated his apology but there was really no need for it.  I asked the question to get information and now that we have this information, we can work on this area together.  He wasnt up for the challenge so he bailed and guess what  he never bothered to tell me.  I thought something terrible happened to him but after careful investigation  he was 100% fine.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;I shared this with you to make a few key points about relationships:&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* There are no perfect people to have relationships with but if we are up for the challenge, our areas of weakness can become strong.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* Conflict is a friend and an opportunity for growth.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* 	Every irritation is a gift for the relationship.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* Relationships are the medicine that we need to grow, heal and reclaim our wholeness.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Many of the people that I admire in relationships at time seem incompatible.  My chiropractor is very strong, opinionated and in your face while her husband lays in the cut behind the scenes.  I remember her husband telling me that he is lucky to be married to a woman like her because he has become and is daily becoming a better man simply by having her in his life for the past 15+ years.  My weak areas have definitely become strong because of her.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Sometimes we need to bail while other times God will send us exactly what we need in order for us to become the best people that we can be.  Dont miss out on your blessing.  Step up to the plate and face the challenge!&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Something to think about...&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;  Coach Yvonne&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; The Single Womans Cheerleader&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://www.availableandhappy.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.availableandhappy.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;mailto:coachyvonne@availableandhappy.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;coachyvonne@availableandhappy.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; 877-7-RELATE (773-5283)&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; " text="&amp;lt;p&amp;gt;&amp;lt;small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;font color=#B0B0B0&amp;gt;Article source: &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;http://www.availableandhappy.com/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.availableandhappy.com/&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;. Used with author's permission.&amp;lt;/font&amp;gt;&amp;lt;/small&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- AdCentsPro --&amp;gt;   &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Back in 2004, I met a gentleman who was interested in getting to know me better.  After a few discussions of finding out what I needed to know, I decided to participate.  Early in this process, he told me that he is not a good chit-chat starter.   He could engage in conversation but starting it and keeping it flowing were not his gifts.  As time moved on, I found this to be true and it began to be a bother.  The long moments of silence on the phone at times drove me batty.  I dont know about you but I dont do long moments of silence well at all.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;One day, I decided to ask him how he felt about our communication.  I mentioned to him my concern about the long moments of silence and he began to apologize.  Well, I told him that I appreciated his apology but there was really no need for it.  I asked the question to get information and now that we have this information, we can work on this area together.  He wasnt up for the challenge so he bailed and guess what  he never bothered to tell me.  I thought something terrible happened to him but after careful investigation  he was 100% fine.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;I shared this with you to make a few key points about relationships:&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* There are no perfect people to have relationships with but if we are up for the challenge, our areas of weakness can become strong.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* Conflict is a friend and an opportunity for growth.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* 	Every irritation is a gift for the relationship.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;* Relationships are the medicine that we need to grow, heal and reclaim our wholeness.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Many of the people that I admire in relationships at time seem incompatible.  My chiropractor is very strong, opinionated and in your face while her husband lays in the cut behind the scenes.  I remember her husband telling me that he is lucky to be married to a woman like her because he has become and is daily becoming a better man simply by having her in his life for the past 15+ years.  My weak areas have definitely become strong because of her.&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Sometimes we need to bail while other times God will send us exactly what we need in order for us to become the best people that we can be.  Dont miss out on your blessing.  Step up to the plate and face the challenge!&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; &amp;lt;p&amp;gt;Something to think about...&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt;  Coach Yvonne&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; The Single Womans Cheerleader&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;a target=&amp;quot;_new&amp;quot; href=&amp;quot;http://www.availableandhappy.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;http://www.availableandhappy.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;mailto:coachyvonne@availableandhappy.com&amp;quot;&amp;gt;coachyvonne@availableandhappy.com&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt;&amp;lt;br&amp;gt; 877-7-RELATE (773-5283)&amp;lt;/p&amp;gt; " url="http://www.findbestdating.com/are-you-up-for-a514.html"/>
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